Yoshide........ PN can't be *absolutely* wrong, can she? I mean, we're getting a little bit strong expressions in this thread, I would say (and it's not like I would, personally, like to expand on these ones, even though I have nothing in common with this thread otherwise, I know).....
And, I think, you're both talking about two different things........ Different levels of support, if it's needed to be put this way to be comprehensible-- over distance, it's possible to let Yoshiki-sama know we love him, but, with talking of pain like that, "general" love doesn't reach the level needed, it's more like acknowledging people are there but nothing that can move the actual "bad" [add another word if needed> painful, miserable, un-healable/incurable, etc.] situation/state..........
I'm again not good with expressing myself, so my excuses, I will come to read what you both came to later, I hope the too hot words in here can get a little calmer......