Anyway, yes, I have read the story, about the blue dress and the gun shot and all that. It's a pretty melody, the story is beautifully written and the lyrics are well written too, but what I really don't understand is how young women in particular can say that it's such a beautiful and meaningful song. It's such a contradiction, because the reality of such a relationship is never romantic, at least not from the girl's point of view. It's horrendous! All the women I know who have experienced this are scarred for life and struggle to have a normal life. That's why I wanted to bring it up, because it just doesn't make sense to me how girls can like this song.
Well for me one important thing about the song and story is that the father cannot have her and that it's killing him.
I don't know what other girls feel about it, but i'm actually pretty interested in incest-relationships and why/how/when it happens and especially how the people feel when they don't actually take action, because they still have the feeling that it's wrong. Yes, many women are scarred for their whole life after getting raped by their father, but this story is basically not about a girl getting raped by her father (in my opinion), but it's much more about the father's feelings than about the actual incest.
Maybe it's just my interpretation, but I didn't really see him taking action, but just a display of his feelings of disappointment, desire and desperation (uh alliteration anyone?).
I don't think the song nor the story actually explains if he is raping her or not, but she seems to be to have a happy and normal life when she gets married.
I might just not remember it right, but I think he kills himself out of desperation because she will never love him back.
In my opinion, incest in this case is not only about sex between related people, but much more about a love that shouldn't be returned and how much it kills a person to know it shouldn't, but wanting so badly that it is anyway.
It is so much about impossibility and desire... I think it's a wonderful story, to sum up so many complex feelings.
Actually just like there are fathers raping their daughters, there are incesty relationships that actually work out. I don't want to say that it's good, but I don't think everything about incest can be taken down to be about destroying raping, that will leave a person scarred forever.
sorry for the rant... I hope you get what i mean
summed up: I don't see in honey blade a pervert father raping his daughter, but the complexity of feelings of a person who will never get what he desires and knows how wrong his feelings are.